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Post subject: SCHOOL PHOBIA – HOW YOU CAN HELP YOUR CHILD OVERCOME IT Post Posted: Tue Mar 27, 2018 6:27 am
School phobia, along with school avoidance and school refusal is a term used to describe a specific anxiety disorder in children typified by a persistent and irrational fear of attending school. Children afflicted by this phobia experience emotional distress at the mere thought of going to school and will regularly make up some physical symptoms e.g. stomachache, nausea and etc. just to stay at home.


The good news is, school phobia is not uncommon and affects up to 28% of youths at some time in their lives (usually between the age of 5-7 and 11-14), according to Christopher A. Kearney, professor and director of clinical training, department of psychology at University of Nevada, Las Vegas. It also usually lasts a short time, especially if you insist on school attendance.
The bad news is, some cases of school phobia can be quite difficult to overcome. And children who display a higher risk for school phobia are usually those who are chronically ill, have no siblings or are the youngest child.

What are the symptoms of school phobia?
Children with school phobia will often complain of physical symptoms shortly before it is time for school. These “physical symptoms” often include stomachache,baby shoes, nausea, headache, diarrhoea that you cannot attribute to any physical ailment – and they usually disappear after they are allowed to skip school. In worse cases, they may throw a temper tantrum or simply panic when you try to get them to school.


Please note that the aforementioned symptoms can sometimes happen to children without school phobia too. Most children will refuse to go to school one time or another. It is only when these symptoms persist for over a week that you should be concerned.

What causes school phobia?
Many reasons have been cited for children's refusal to attend school, and some of the most common ones are as follow:
A family change like a death, separation, move, illness or financial problems.
The child's fear of being separated from his parents or caregiver a.k.a separation anxiety.
Times of transition such as switching to a new school or entering high school – he may have difficulty adapting to the completely new environment.
The child has been absent from school for a long time due to an illness or other reasons.
An overprotective parent who reinforces the idea that being away from him or her means bad things would happen.
The child's fear of not being able to meet his parent(s)' expectations of perfect test scores.
An irrational fear of the possibility of any tragedy.
A lack of self-confidence.


The school itself can play host to many reasons as well, and the following are what usually encourage school phobia in children:
Fear of criticism, ridicule and punishment from any teacher or school personnel.
Fear of teasing and bullying from schoolmates due to a difference in weight, height,baby care, clothing style and etc.
Fear of school bullies.
Being afraid of not meeting the school's expectations of good grades.
Having a learning disability – he will be afraid of being asked to read aloud, or called upon to answer questions for instances.
Having toileting issues.
Feeling left out due to poor social skills.

How can I help my child overcome it?
The most important thing to do is to keep them in school, as missing school for any extended period of time will reinforce the phobia rather than alleviate it. But how do you keep a reluctant child at school? First of all, ask them why they refuse to go, and no matter how ridiculous their answer is, make sure you don't belittle or scoff at them. Listen and empathize.

If the underlying cause is attributed to home issues, deal with the problem constructively. The point is to modify the home environment to a more positive one. Help your child establish a support system and make him aware of it. Bear in mind that they are still very young and need all the emotional support they can get during times of difficulty.

On the other hand, if your child is suffering from separation anxiety, there are a few ways you can ease it:
Practice separation by leaving your child with someone else (his grandma or caretaker) for brief periods.
Establish a goodbye ritual – as rituals are very reassuring to a child – and leave without any fanfare – don't stall and turn it into a bigger deal than it is.
Reassure your child that he has nothing to fear.

As not every cause for school phobia stems from home,baby nappies, it is advisable to arrange an informal meeting with their teachers or school counsellor to determine the real cause. People with these jobs are usually trained in children behaviour, and they have probably encountered similar cases. As such, they might be able to come up with an appropriate course of action for you.




Then, increase your child's exposure to school gradually, all the while emphasizing the positive aspects of going to school e.g. playing during recess, making new friends and gaining new knowledge. It helps to find out what your child excels at – that way, you can talk to the school to provide more opportunities for him in that field.

If you deem your child's phobia too severe to deal with (or if changes have been made and your child is still refusing to go to school), Daniel Pine, MD who directs research on anxiety disorders in children and adolescents at the National Institute of Mental Health has a solution, "The most important thing a parent can do is obtain a comprehensive evaluation from a mental health professional.”
As soon as that is done, the child might be put through a combination of cognitive and behavioural therapy – which has been known to yield positive results. One study has shown that more than 80% of children receiving this combination of therapies were attending school normally just one year after treatment.

Conclusion
Keeping a child in school is vital to their wellbeing, as children who attend school tend to turn into well-rounded beings. Which is why it is important that any problem that affecting their school attendance be nipped in the bud immediately.

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